14 Years old, 40.000 miles: That's the problem.
Diesel make sense when driving longer distances, they are not build for commuting to the next supermarket and back, at least since they've got particulate filters and need to regenerate.
But there's more: Some of them need to be cooled down after driving to protect the turbocharger and generally items like turbochargers, intercoolers, high pressure fuel lines, particulate filters, EGR and so forth will start to cost once the car is beyond 120.000 miles.
I drive an average of 18.000 miles a year and had a Diesel Chrysler with a Mercedes power plant before I bought my current petrol Jaguar.
Yes - the fuel consumption was about 20% lower than on my current car.
But the repair bills where horrendous, so was the depreciation. And the repairs started from day one, then under warranty, until the point, where I sold the car as project car with only 120.000 miles on it because the quoted repair costs where higher than the resale value of the repaired car.
As a comparison: I bought my 2003 petrol XJ6 with 70.000 miles on the clock, drove it for another 75.000 miles now and the aggregated repair bills are less than 3,500.-€ (a little more than I spend for the Diesel Chrysler per year!).